Top 20 Self Help Books of All Time

Top 20 Best Self Help Books of All Time

1. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

The Alchemist is the magical story of Santiago, an Andalusian shepherd boy who wants to travel in search of an extravagant treasure. From his home in Spain he journeys to the markets of Tangiers and across the Egyptian desert to a fateful encounter with the alchemist. The story of the treasures he finds on his journey teaches us about the essential wisdom of listening to our hearts, learning to read the signs along life's path, and, above all, following our dreams.

2. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey

Covey presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach for solving personal and professional problems. With powerful insights and spot on anecdotes, Covey reveals a pathway for living with fairness, integrity, service, and human dignity–principles that give us the security to adapt to change and the wisdom and power to take advantage of the opportunities that change creates.

3. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

Tolle takes readers on an inspiring spiritual journey to find their true and deepest self and reach the ultimate in personal growth and spirituality: the discovery of truth and light. In writing about enlightenment, he introduces you to it's natural enemy, your mind. He goes further by showing readers how to live in the present moment.

4. Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki

Kiyosaki tackles the "financial literacy" that's never addressed in schools. He had two father figures growing up. One who struggled paycheck to paycheck for a lifetime whom he called "poor dad" and the other who was a multimillionaire eighth grade dropout he lovingly calls "rich dad". The concept behind the book is that rich people have money work for them while the poor work for money. This is a must read to change anyone's negative belief system on money or to further your understanding on how money can work for you.

5. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

This is one of the most timeless self help books ever written. Carnegie believed that most successes come from an ability to communicate effectively versus brilliant insights. This book teaches these skills by showing you how to value people and help them feel appreciated rather than manipulated.

6. The Road Less Traveled by M Scott Peck

When a book opens with "Life is difficult", you know it's going to wake you up and provide you with some candid lessons. His timeless voice in The Road Less Traveled continues to help us explore the nature of loving relationships and leads us toward a new peace and fulfillment. You will learn how to distinguish dependency from love; how to become a more sensitive parent; and ultimately how to become one's own true self.

7. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Hill was one of the first ever self help authors, and his books are incredibly relevant today. Think and Grow Rich condenses his laws of success and provides you with 13 principles of personal achievement. It is noted that an individual with desire, faith, and persistence can reach great success by eliminating all negative energy and thoughts and focusing at the greater goals in hand.

8. The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz

This self help book is rooted in traditional Toltec wisdom, four agreements in life are essential steps on the path to personal freedom. As beliefs are transformed through keeping these agreements, shamanic teacher don Miguel Ruiz asserts lives will "become filled with grace, peace, and unconditional love."

9. As a Man Thinketh by James Allen

This is considered a classic self-help book that inspired future books on the law of attraction. Its underlying premise is that noble thoughts make a noble person, while lowly thoughts make a miserable person. James Allen reveals how our thoughts determine reality. He shows you how you can master your thoughts to create the life you want instead of simply drifting through life unaware of the inner forces that keep us held in failure and frustration.

10. Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl

This self help book has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. He holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure but the discovery and pursuit of what we find meaningful.

11. See You at the Top by Zig Ziglar

As one of America's most gifted speakers/authors in motivation, the late Zig Ziglar shares the secrets of climbing the stairway to personal success. He presents a proven program of self-development based upon the foundation of a winning self-image.

12. The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield

In the rain forests of Peru, an ancient manuscript was discovered. It includes 9 key insights on life. Drawing on ancient wisdom, it shows you how to make connections among the current events in your life and let's you see what is going to happen to you in the future. This book can help you understand why you are where you are in life and align you with a new optimism for your future.

13. The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale

Dr. Peale shows you 10 simple rules to obtain confidence, 3 proven secrets for vigor, 5 techniques to overcome defeat and much, much more. This book proves that an attitude can change lives, win success in all things, and overcome obstacles. 

14. The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles

Originally published in 1910, this book takes the mystery out of wealth accumulation and breaks it down into a scientific formula. The text is divided into 17 quick, no nonsense chapters that show you how to oconquer mental barriers, and how creation, not competition, is the true key to attracting wealth.

15. The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra

Chopra's teachings are summed up in 7 simple principles which can be applied to all areas of your personal life to create success. Chopra's basic premise is that personal understanding and harmony promote fulfilling relationships and material abundance without extra effort. Each of the chapters provide specifics on how to achieve it.

16. The Magic of Thinking Big by David J. Schwartz

Millions of people all over the world have improved their lives using this book. Schwartz will help you sell better, lead more effectively, earn more money, and (this is a big one) find more happiness and peace of mind.He proves that you don't need innate talent to achieve massive success but you do need to understand the habit of thinking and behaving in ways that get you there.

17. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers

We've all got fears which is why I love this book! Whatever your fear, here is your chance to push through it once and for all. You'll discover how to move from victim to creator, the 10-step process to turn off the negative talk in your head and how to create more meaning in your life by overcoming those fears.

18. Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins

Tony Robbins is famous for his motivational speaking but this is, by far, one of the best self help books of all time. Robbins shows you his most effective strategies and techniques for mastering your emotions, your body, your relationships, your finances, and your life through a step-by-step program teaching self-mastery that enables you to discover your true purpose, take control of your life and harness the forces that shape your destiny.

19. The Power of Intention by Wayne W. Dyer

This isn't your typical book on intention. Dyer has researched intention as a force in the universe that allows the act of creation to take place. This book explores intention—not as something you do—but as an energy you're a part of. We're all intended here through the invisible power of intention. He's the first in our industry to look at intention as a field of energy that you can access to begin co-creating your life with the power of intention.

20. What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Dr. Shad Helmstetter

Don't overlook this book because it's #20 on my Top 20 Best Self Help Books of all time list. I've recommended this book to many friends and family members who's lives have been changed dramatically as a result of reading this book. Self doubt? Read this book. In secure about anything? Read this book. I'm sure you get the idea.

How to teach your kid to invest

The first thing you need to know as a parent is that the best way of teaching your child about money is leading by example. There are better chances of your child learning good financial habits when he sees you practicing them, rather than you telling him or her what these habits are. Better still if he goes through this himself, as his understanding will be far better through experiential learning. 

1. Whether there are money constraints or not, you still need to tell your child that these constraints exist. More importantly you need to show this by not buying anything and everything that he asks for, irrespective of your being able to afford it or not. Not only that, you need to exercise restraint when it comes to spending money on something that you want. It could be a movie starring your favourite actor that you skip watching on screen stating that it is too expensive an outing and you will instead watch it on TV when it will be telecast in a few months. 

2. Discuss how planning for something, waiting and accumulating money for it and then buying it scores much higher than instant gratification. Resisting impulses is a habit which will serve your child well not only in the financial sense but also generally. 

3. Start him on budgeting even as early as 5-6 years. Tell him X is the money he gets for toys and he can buy whatever he wants but this is all he gets till his next birthday or for 6 months. This will teach him to look at toys within that budget and those that will last longer. He may not get it immediately oe even the first couple of times. He will buy one expensive toy or a toy that breaks soon and realise on his own that it is a wrong choice. 

4. Money earns money i.e. the compounding story is a concept that you must familiarise your child with. Start with simple examples of how bank interest works. 

5. Give an allowance to your child and have him manage his small expenses with it. It will teach him the value of money, concepts like budgeting and saving.

 6. Have a system of rewarding chores. While they should not be doing chores just to earn money but they need to understand that to earn more money you need to work more and work harder. It is very critical in todays world to teach your child to be financially responsible. Shweta Jain is a Certified Financial Planner and has been an advisor for the last 10 years with www.immpl.com.

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Shweta Jain  is a Certified Financial Planner and has been an advisor for the last 10 years with www.immpl.com.