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Monday, September 10, 2007

KNOW YOUR KEY STRENGHTS II

KNOW YOUR KEY STRENGHTS II

In a SWOT analysis, we may have to list out the strengths. In every interview, there is a definite question about the strengths of candidate. Let us see some of the other strengths.

Being Polite

Some people attract others. If you analyse what is attracting others, we will find that politeness of such people may be one of the factors. In our day to day life, we may have to come across many difficult, tense situations. How we manage those situations ? Are we becoming the victims of situations ?

Patience

Some people do things in a hurry-burry manner. They suffer due to this. Some patiently do the things and win over all the situations. When we stand in a queue, do we have the patience, knowing pretty well the speed of the clerk attending the people. Are we able to accept the situations and adjust ? Patient people will do this

Good decision making

If you take the merits and demerits before taking any decision, you will gain a lot. Without analyzing anything, if you jump into something, then who will face the consequences. Hence good decision making is one of the good qualities to be appreciated.

Caring for others

This quality cannot be taught at any school. It should come from the family background. Parents are the role models first. In any given situation, if we care for others, others will care for us when really needed. This character is very much required in the present modern world. Most of the people are selfish. When they are selfish, they just don’t care for others. What they want, they just do, without bothering about the consequent causes for others.

Good planning

If you want to go for a picnic, you can’t simply start your journey to some tourist spot. A lot of planning is required. The distance from your place, journey time, places to be visited, booking the tickets to and fro, fixing the hotel accommodation, etc are to be planned. Then only the picnic can be enjoyed. Our life is more than a picnic. Good planning keeps you to have a cool head.


Good listening

We can call it as art of listening. Do we allow the other person to complete the conversation fully. Are we not jumping into some conclusion and interfere in the conversation. Due to this, we miss a lot. If we are unable to listen properly, we are creating a room for inter personal relation problems. Many divorce cases can be solved if the couples have this quality. For students, good listening will give more than 60 % of their input for studying.


Empathy

Normally we see from our angle and take decisions. We are not trained to see the other person’s view. If you are in other person’s shoes, then you can view something differently. If you start practicing this way, many problems can be prevented at the bud. “How the other person will feel”, “If I use these words, will it harm him ?” will be questions arising before you.


Forgiving

There were many negative instances happening in our lives. Are we carrying all these in our mind ? Then vengeance will develop. Then we may be concentrating only how to punish the other person, searching for a good opportunity. Then how can we develop ourselves. Hence, as advised by our forefathers, gurus, saints, we should develop the habit of forgiving. Scientifically, keeping vengeance inside the heart will produce only negative energy. Once you forgive, the negative energy producing factory is destroyed. You can attract positive energy towards you.


Humourous

Humourous people never have stress. They talk humourously and attract people. They can take the serious things very lightly. They can maintain good inter personal relations. Their presence will be lively to all. Hence, learn to talk humourously.

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